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release year
1998 (USA)
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language
English
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genre
Comedy, Drama
Anna and Ben, the two children of Jackie and Luke, have to cope with the fact that their parents divorced and that there is a new woman in their father's life: Isabel, a successful photographer. She does her best to treat the kids in a way that makes them still feel at home when being with their dad, but also loves her work and does not plan to give it up. But Jackie, a full-time mother, regards Isabel's efforts as offensively insufficient. She can't understand that work can be important to her as well as the kids. The conflict between them is deepened by the sudden diagnose of cancer, which might may be deadly for Jackie. They all have to learn a little in order to grow together.
trivia
Rejected titles include "Goodnight Moon," "Promises Kept," "See You in My Dreams" and "Always, Always."
The restaurant called "The '76 House", featured in two dinner scenes, one with Jackie and Luke and one with Jackie and Isabel, is a National Historical Site in Tappan, Rockland County, New York. Major John Andre, a British officer who assisted turncoat Benedict Arnold, was held there while awaiting trial by then General George Washington. At the time, it was a tavern and inn, but located across from the town meeting hall and church where the trial was held; another National Historic Site.
The film was dedicated "In loving memory of Irene Columbus", director Chris Columbus's mother, who in the year before the movie was released had died of cancer, a similar circumstance to one of the main characters in the movie.
The song that Isabel ('Julia Roberts') sings to Ben (Liam Aiken) in the hospital is "If I Needed You". It was recorded by Lyle Lovett on his 1998 album "Step Inside This House". Lyle and Julia were, of course, married at one time.
Chris Columbus's daughter, Eleanor Columbus makes an appearance as the little girl in ballet class (but is uncredited).
Patrick Doyle wrote a score for the film which was rejected.
Each of the leads (Julia Roberts, Susan Sarandon, Ed Harris) was Oscar-nominated for playing real people - Sarandon as Helen Prejean in "Dead Man Walking", Roberts as Erin Brockovich in "Erin Brockovich", and Harris as Jackson Pollock in "Pollock." Roberts and Sarandon both won; Harris lost.
This was the first theatrical film to premiere on the WB television network.
The film is known internationally by numerous alternate titles. For example: "Stay to My Side" (Spanish), "My Best Enemy" (French), and "Side by Side" (Portuguese, German)